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- Your brain chemicals want you to "wife" her up! π§ π
Your brain chemicals want you to "wife" her up! π§ π
The Dark Side of "Friends with Benefits" Biochemistry doesn't lie π

Hey man,
When you have casual sex or hook up for some "Friends With Benefits" action...

It all starts with a kissβ¦ π
did you know your brain doesn't see any difference... [1]
...between that sex partner and a serious committed relationship? π§
It's true.
And the science is clear.
Behind the scenes...
you're getting pair bonded to that person...
whether you like it or not. π²
All thanks to a cocktail of powerful chemicals released in your brain...
during and after sex. πΈ
One of the biggest to blame?
Oxytocin - called the "love hormone." π
It's released in MASSIVE quantities during sex and orgasm... especially if you finish inside her. π¦
And once oxytocin floods your system, it unleashes a cascade of effects:
π€ Increases trust and emotional attachment [1]
π₯° Encourages bonding behaviors like cuddling [2]
π Boosts feelings of calmness and security [3]
π Reinforces neural pathways related to that person [4]
In other words...
your brain starts wiring itself to depend on that person...
for feel-good chemicals and emotional regulation.
But it gets worse...
Oxytocin teams up with other neurotransmitters like:
Dopamine (the "reward" chemical) π
Serotonin (the "happy hormone") π
Endorphins (natural painkillers) π©Ή
Vasopressin (the "monogamy molecule") π
To make you feel REALLY GOOD around that person and want to repeat the behavior again and again. [5][6]
It's like a drug you can't quit... messing with your emotions and overriding your true desires. π«
Before you know it... you're on the path to Oneitis... and Simping - without even realizing it! π± [1]
And the more times you hook up with the same person...
the stronger that pair bond becomes. βοΈ
Until you're practically addicted to them and their sexual trap! π
So what's the solution?
Well, for the next 7 days we'll Nerd-Out on the REAL science of human pair (sexual) bonding. π¬
You'll discover:
Email #1: What is Pair Bonding? π
Email #2: Your Body's Natural Love Drugs: Oxytocin, Dopamine, Vasopressin and More π
Email #3: Why Casual Sex is Like Playing Chemical Russian Roulette π°
Email #4: How to Break Free From Negative Attachment Patterns βοΈ
Email #5: The Neurochemical Secrets of Sexual Satisfaction π
Email #6: How the Brain Chemicals of Sex Control Your Behavior π§ͺ
Email #7: Hack Your Biochemistry For Healthy, Non-Needy Relationships π‘
Plus a BONUS email...
Email #8: How to Do a Sex Reset: The Benefits of Prolonged Abstinence π«π
Imagine taking a break from...
Porn...
Masturbation...
And Sex...
with women for 1-3 months or more.
Studies show that a period of celibacy and semen retention can lead to some...
Psychological and even Spiritual benefits for...
Laser-sharp mental focus [7] π―
Skyrocketing productivity [7] π
Enhanced creativity and problem-solving π‘ [7]
By giving your brain a break from the constant flood of sexual neuro-chemicals...
you allow it to reset and rebalance itself.
You'll break free from negative attachment patterns...
gain control over your impulses...
and experience the benefits of channeling that sexual energy...
into other areas of your life.
We'll dive deeper into the transformative power of...
prolonged abstinence in this bonus email. π§ββοΈ
So you can understand your body's instinctive drives...
Take back control from your brain's ancient wiring...
And make conscious choices about your love life! π¨βπ¬
Stay tuned for more cutting-edge research that could save your sexual sanity.
See ya soon,
Mens Health Secrets
βLive Past 100
P.S. Beware: Your brain's love chemicals are sabotaging your sex life! π± In the next email, discover the primal evolutionary forces behind your urge to merge... π Stay tuned!
P.P.S. Boring legal alert: Always check with your doc before trying anything new. Mens Health Secrets is notβ¦ medical advice - just fun infotainment! π
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Medical References:
[1] Magon, N., & Kalra, S. (2011). The orgasmic history of oxytocin: Love, lust, and labor. Indian journal of endocrinology and metabolism, 15 Suppl 3(Suppl3), S156βS161. https://doi.org/10.4103/2230-8210.84851
[2] UvnΓ€s-Moberg, K., Handlin, L., & Petersson, M. (2015). Self-soothing behaviors with particular reference to oxytocin release induced by non-noxious sensory stimulation. Frontiers in psychology, 5, 1529. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2014.01529
[3] Ito E, Shima R, Yoshioka T. A novel role of oxytocin: Oxytocin-induced well-being in humans. Biophys Physicobiol. 2019 Aug 24;16:132-139. https://doi.org/10.2142/biophysico.16.0_132. PMID: 31608203; PMCID: PMC6784812.
[4] Johnson, Z. V., & Young, L. J. (2015). Neurobiological mechanisms of social attachment and pair bonding. Current opinion in behavioral sciences, 3, 38β44. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cobeha.2015.01.009
[5] Esch, T., & Stefano, G. B. (2005). The Neurobiology of Love. Neuro endocrinology letters, 26(3), 175β192. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15990719/
[6] Bartels A, Zeki S. The neural basis of romantic love. Neuroreport. 2000 Nov 27;11(17):3829-34. https://doi.org/10.1097/00001756-200011270-00046. PMID: 11117499.
[7] Hill, N. (2015). The mystery of sex transmutation. In Think and grow rich Ch 11 (pp. 189β210). The Mindpower Press. https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Original-RevisedTM/dp/0990797600/